Where I Write About Life and Share My Favourite Snaps
"I had no right to claim him, I knew it. But in solitary life, there are rare moments when another soul dips near yours, as stars once a year brush the earth. Such a constellation was he to me."
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How I Prevent Flies and Other Insects In My Apartment
Wednesday, June 22, 2022
Insects such as fruit flies and cockroaches are probably one of the most common problems in apartment living in the Philippines. It does not even matter if you live in a home apartment or in a high rise, if the environment is right for the pests to grow, they will grow.
What I realise, basically the rule of thumb is regular cleaning and really taking early preventative measures. When it comes to this problem, prevention is really easier than cure.
Here are some of what I do to prevent flies and other insects from growing in my apartment:
Regularly cleaning the drain
Drains are the gateway of some insects into one's home. I live in an apartment building which means higher number of people equals to a higher number of possibility for insect growth. Others like to use a drain cover that is very cheap to buy (I'm thinking of getting this one of these days) but what I like to do is regularly clean the drain with just pure vinegar. I leave it for at least half an hour.
I do this once or twice a month or as often as I think is needed.
Fly trap and air freshener under the sink
Where I live, under the sink can get very moist and smell unpleasant. This might be a unique case and others may not experience this as often or at all. I try to store the least used things under the sink and I always keep in there that I replace once or twice a month for maintenance. I also like to keep an air freshener under the sink to keep it smelling nice.
Using a door seal strip
One of the facts of living in an apartment building is you will never know how clean or filthy your neighbours are unless you personally know them. If they're not very clean and they have been breeding all sorts of insects in their place, those insects can and will find their way into your place. I got this door seal strip from Lazada. I particularly like this one because it is non-adhesive so it won't do any damage to the door and it really shuts the space between the door and the floor really well. It also helps keep the smell of the chemicals whenever the building does their regular pest control activities.
Always keeping a clear sink
I personally do not like leaving the sink dirty for hours. Even not just for the purpose of keeping insects away, I believe it is good practice that as much as possible, I clean up my dishes everytime I am done using them just to keep a clear sink. This is more than insect maintenance, this is just home maintenance in general. I always think that I got time to eat, I should make time to clean after myself. Keeping a clean sink highly minimises the chances of bacteria and insect growth and it's a good practice to keep those away from one's home.
Double Bunny Daifuku in Cebu City
Monday, June 20, 2022
Any day is a perfect day for good Japanese dessert. Today, let's try out Double Bunny Daifuku.
Double Bunny Daifuku is a Cebu City-based business and their daifukus are home-made. In case you did not know, Daifuku, according to our good ol' friend Wikipedia, is a "a wagashi, consisting of a small round mochi stuffed with a sweet filling, most commonly anko." It is filled mochi. Anko is a sweetened red bean paste.
I got two of their flavours: pandan and ube which were the only two available when I ordered but they also have matcha, mango and red bean (subject to availability).
Just for full disclosure though, I am friends with one of the owners (they're a very lovely couple btw) but I will still give an honest review.
Ube Flavour Daifuku
Pandan Flavour Daifuku
Laguna Garden Cafe in Ayala Center Cebu
Wednesday, June 15, 2022
When I think of great Filipino restaurants in Cebu City, Laguna Garden Cafe springs to mind almost everytime.
The restaurant is home to many delicious and known Filipino dishes making a great place for friends and family who wants a fancier but not necessarily expensive experience.
Ambiance
Among many Filipino restaurants in the city, Laguna Garden Cafe or its little sister Cafe Laguna might have one of the best interiors and dining experience.
The ambiance of the restaurant really does a lot to elevate how a stranger to the Filipino cuisine will perceive it as a whole.
Although the place has undeniably fancier looking interior, the prices are still very reasonable and very much worth it.
Food
We got two main dishes and two desserts. The photo above is their Beef Kaldereta. The serving is not very large but I think this could feed a party of three or four. Beef Kaldereta is a Filipino dish of beef stewed in tomato sauce and liver spread.
This does not taste like the kalderetas we have at fiestas (those are top notch) but Laguna Garden Cafe's take on this dish is still very authentic and tastes really great.
Don't judge the book by its cover because this dish might not look the prettiest but it's actually very tasty. This is their Sizzling Sisig na Bangus.
I would personally describe the taste of this as somewhat like a blend of lechon and seafood. That may not be very accurate so take that opinion with a grain of salt. Basically, this dish is really flavourful and will surely make you want to reach for more rice.
I also had their Sago't Gulaman. It is a Filipino beverage usually made of brown sugar, gelatin, tapioca pearls and water. I like the drink a lot but I found that the sago and gulaman are way too bland. Perhaps it's to balance out the sweetness of the liquid? I am not sure but I still think if they're going to be there, they at least have to taste like a little something.
Service
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Books I Would Recommend To Children of School Age (6-12 Years)
Monday, June 13, 2022
Reading has taught me to so many things about life and travel way before I got the chance to experience it myself. It has made me love to write about almost everything that I love. It helped me understand different types of people I have not even met. I honestly think it's a great habit for children to develop even at a young age.
As for those who are ready to move past the storybooks and on to school age-friendly reads, these would be some of my first recommendations:
Percy Jackson and The Lightning Thief (Rick Riordan)
Harry Potter Series (J.K. Rowling)
The Chronicles of Narnia (C.S. Lewis)
The Hobbit (J.R.R. Tolkien)
We all know how much it takes to keep a family whole but not everyone understands how much more it takes to heal if it breaks.
Stepmom is a story of a family divided by the parents' divorced. The dad has now moved on with a new, younger partner who struggles to win his children's approval while at the same time dealing with the ex-wife.
The film looks at so many angles of a family who is going through this transition. It shows that difficult as it is already, what makes the situation more challenging is when the adults don't act like their age and forgetting the children who are overwhelmed and lost in the entire ordeal.
A broken family
The stepmom, Isabel, is a photographer in New York and just like a lot of women her age, she is carefree and passionate. She does not know what it takes to be a mom but she did everything she could. All her efforts always seem to go down the drain because of her boyfriend's ex-wife who constantly make her feel that she will never be enough. You know those kind of mothers who feel like they're far and above everyone else just becasuse they are mothers - I mean I do understand motherhood is the most challenging and rewarding thing, but I don't think it gives anyone the right to invalidate other people just because they are not.
It also does not help Isabel much when the children repels her. However, this I do understand where they're coming from. They're only children and they could only grasp as much as they can and that is that they wanted a perfect family but the situation ruined it for them. They could not understand that it was not necessarily Isabel's fault because their parents' marriage was already falling apart. There was even a time when the younger child hears his birth mother talks about Isabel in a bad light and all he said was,
"Mom, if you want me to hate her, I will"
Even that stunned Jackie but she did not say anything to correct it which could have been a good learning experience. At that time though, her heart was heavy and she couldn't bear to do the right thing.
A change of heart
It was kind of like a domino effect of things not going in Isabel's favour but that changed because of a diagnosis.
This diagnosis (I will not say to whom) changed every single one of their lives and how they perceived each other. This changes the dynamics of their relationship in a way that they slowly begin to understand that beneath all the brokenness and hatred, lies the most important thing which is family.
In conclusion...
Families, as varied as they are, each hold a complexity. Each family has a story and this (although fictional) is a very powerful one and is definitely worth the watch. The character development contained in just a little over two hours is so powerful and so beautifully done. It is emotionally gripping even if you are like me who are not in the same situation as they are.
Stepmom is now available to stream on Netflix or you can also buy it in Youtube.