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A young woman steps off the city bus
The world oblivious of her existence
She's no ordinary girl, she knows
But she's also not very special - she remembered
She strides along a broken path
As fleeting moments brush through her like the winter wind
"It's not to feel unwanted", she said, as she moves along with the crowd
She stops by a pastry shop
Watching everyone pick the prettiest things
It's human nature after all
To seek for the better,
Leaving out all the burnt ones to be thrown away
"It's nice to feel unwanted," she said, as she moves along with the crowd
She stops by a park
A place where people stay to get away
She sees two old men playing chess toppling one pawn after another
They don't mean anything she realised
They are, after all, pieces of a game
Meant only to slow down the loss of the most important piece
"It's nice to feel unwanted," she said,
as she sits down and takes a deep breath.
Many good things have been said about the tons of great memories you get when travelling with great company, but have you tried just enjoying places and experiences all on your own? You might think that sounds lonely or unexciting. However, it can also be the most satisfying adventure you'll ever have in a lifetime.
I am not talking about a travel where you're with a group and you stray for a few hours to discover a spot on your own.
Solo travel involves only you from the planning to going back home.
It's a travel where you get to make all the decisions on your own and modify them according to your liking once you are in your destination.
The planning might be challenging because you have to make sure you get the details all aligned to make your journey easier. On the other hand, imagine a trip that is all based on your preferences and goals. Think about a trip where you don't have to ask around or adjust things just because everyone else likes to do different things.
This trip is all made for you and you alone.
Solo travelling will let you wake up on your hotel room, get dressed and leave for the day's schedule without waiting for anyone.
It is scary, but it will teach you a lot about responsibility. Since you are on your own, you are responsible to keep yourself and your belongings safe. You'll be able to make decisions without relying on someone's company in a foreign place.
You get to stay longer, leave earlier. You get to rush your schedule or take a moment to relax. And it's all up to you.
If you get lost or realised you planned or did something incorrectly, you get to pick yourself up and keep going. No one's there for you so you really have to do it on your own.
In travelling alone you get to manage your resources because if anything goes wrong, it's not easy to just borrow someone else's resource. Your initiative to be more careful and responsible with the things you do will usually kick in.
Solo travel taught me so much about self-reliance more than any other experience.
Nowadays when dependency seem to be the norm, a solo trip will take you out of your comfort zone but towards a rewarding experience that you will less likely (or even never) regret in your life.
A View Across the Rooftops is written by Suzanne Kelman and was published in 2019. It is a historical novel set in Amsterdam during the second World War.
1. Pack according to airline regulations
2. Be mindful of what is prohibited in your destination country
3. Do not pack valuables in checked luggage
4. Check the weight
One Day In Melbourne + Itinerary
Thursday, January 13, 2022
Melbourne is one of the prettiest place that I have ever been to and one of my top favourites. There’s so much good in Melbourne - the shops, the people, the food, coffee…just everything!
A couple years back I had the chance to visit Melbourne for a business trip. Because I was there for business, I didn’t have a lot of time to explore the entire city.
Looking back, I was able to piece together this itinerary for those who might only have one entire day to explore Melbourne for a stopover or just to squeeze in the middle of your Australia trip.
I also added in a downloadable itinerary at the end of this post in case you need it.
7:00 am - Breakfast at Degraves Lane
If you only have little time in a place, it is best to start as early as possible. It’s also good if you want to reach touristy spots earlier if you want better photos unless it’s the huge crowd you’re after. I like Degraves Lane because it’s closest to Flinders Lane.
Degraves Lane is an alleyway of coffee shops and it’s not a Melbourne experience without dining outdoors in one of their alleyways even in the wintertime. Choose any open cafe to your liking. I don’t think there’s a bad one in Degraves so eat away!
8:00 am - Take tons of photos in Hosier Lane
After you’ve enjoyed a hearty breakfast in Degraves and you’ve relaxed a bit, it’s time to head to Hosier Lane which is only a short walk from Degraves. Hosier Lane is another alleyway, but this time it’s full of street wall art. They make really cool and pretty background for your portraits. I suggest to get this out of the way the earliest because it can get super crowded here on regular hours.
9:00 am - Relax at the Royal Botanic Gardens
The Royal Botanic Gardens in Melbourne is picture-perfect. There’s no words to accurately describe it. If you want both a place to relax and take pretty pictures in, then the Royal Botanic Gardens is just the perfect spot. Please keep it in mind that this is a peaceful place and not be too loud if you are coming in groups.
10:00 am - Explore the Shrine of Remembrance
The Shrine of Remembrance is not only an astonishing architectural structure, it is also rich in history. The building is a war memorial that was initially built to honour the men and women who served the first world war but eventually became a memorial for every single one who served in the war. There are tours available inside which I highly suggest if you want the full experience.
11:00 am - Have your best steak (yet)
1:00 pm - Shop at the Queen Victoria Market
Melbourne is filled with really great shops, but the Queen Victoria Market is the queen of them all. If you're looking to buy souvenirs, local artisan goods or just anything under the sun, you must make it a priority to visit the market. It is also within the city centre so it is easily accessible.
3:00 pm - Visit the State Library of Victoria
After a good two hours of shopping, it is worth relaxing at the State Library of Victoria.They have guided tours which takes you around the library and its history and after, you can explore the books in the library on your own and just pause and take your time to relax. It's not easy to be walking around all day.
4:00 pm - Ride the Melbourne Star
The Melbourne Star might be the best way to see Melbourne from a high altitude. I suggest you go there a little late in the afternoon so that the sun is not blazing hot and it is not too dark yet. You can also opt for a night ride if you prefer to see the city lights. The ride up has an audio recording as a tour of the views that you can see from different sides. The establishment is currently closed because of the pandemic but let's hope everything goes back to normal soon enough!
5:00 pm - Have a walk and dinner at Docklands
A walk at Docklands is a pretty nice way to end your day. Though there is not much going on in this area, I still think it's worth having a walk around, watch the sunset and perhaps wait for dinnertime to dine in one of the many restaurants by the docks.
6:00 pm - Bask in the city nightlights
After dinner in Docklands, head back to Flinders Lane and this time explore what the city has to offer at night time. I personally went to Woolies and Chemist Warehouse to do some more shopping, but there are tons of shops and pretty places to explore and take photos of at night. Melbourne is as beautiful at nighttime as it is during the daytime.
I don't think I can ever get enough of Melbourne. Maybe anyone who has been to Melbourne has left a piece of their heart there. It's just really, really lovely. It's that one place that you know you'll always want to go back to time and time again.
Downloadable Content
You may download a summary of this itinerary below. I added in details on how to get there, but I did not include costs this time. If you are reading this at the time that we are still in a global pandemic, be sure to research on the opening hours of the establishments for a smoother trip. Happy travels!
It goes without saying that travelling in general is challenging since the pandemic started in 2019. From travel bans to insanely expensive fees, travel is now frustrating in so many ways.
Having travelled a few months ago, I had a firsthand experience to how it is like. Experiences are always different for everybody, but here are a few things to consider or keep in mind before heading on to your next flight.
Get vaccinated.
I cannot stress enough how important it is to protect yourself before even going out of your house. If you do not like the idea of vaccination for other people's safety, do it for your own - this is a good kind of selfish. When you travel, you can only do so much to protect yourself. Even though passengers tested negative before the flight and the air inside the plane is purified, the risk is also at your destination.
Health insurance might be needed.
This was not required by the Canadian government for tourists, but when I travelled, the airlines back in the Philippines and the Philippine immigration officer asked me if I had one. It's a good thing I did have one. It might have been stressful for me if I didn't. So, before you travel, it might help if you check if the airlines, the destination or immigration office requires it.
Organise your documents.
In my case, I found that organising my documents by importance and labelling them on the side made it easier every time it had to be checked at the airport. This will really lift off a lot of airport stress.
Be earlier than usual.
All the documents checking, immigration, queues add up so much time especially if you have to transit. This differs by airport so check your airline's recommendation on how early you should be. Also make sure you have enough transit time in between flights.
Book direct.
A few years ago, I booked a flight via a travel agency website because it was cheaper. Unfortunately, I had to change the flight. I called the airlines to have it changed and they said they cannot do anything directly from their end because the flight was not booked direct. I was also advised that for flights that I may have to change or flights during critical dates, it is better to book direct if I wanted direct help from the airlines. I was able to change that flight, but the fees were very expensive. I had to pay all the airline charges plus the travel agency charges.
During these uncertain times, it might be better to book direct especially now that most airlines offer refund and/or free rebooking. Flight changes and cancellations will be easier to manage if you book direct.
Sanitise.
Again, these are quite critical times and it is important to sanitise before touching your face. In the airplane, I made sure to sanitise the tray table and the window because I knew that's where I will have the most contact. I also carried my alcohol spray with me all the time and placed it in the outermost portion of my backpack, the one that is most easily accessible. Most importantly, I disinfected all my luggage after picking them up from the carousel and my shoes before leaving the airport.
Travel these days is a lot more complex, but it is still possible. Just make sure you have your complete documents and you have done your research beforehand.
And even without a pandemic, always travel responsibly and travel safely.
Uncle Tetsu's in Downtown Toronto | Takeaway Review
Sunday, January 9, 2022
In our last trip to Toronto, we walked our hearts out to make it to the business hours of another cheese tart brand but we weren't able to make it. They only had two pieces left and they weren't the flavours we wanted so we went for the next best thing which was Uncle Tetsu's Cheesecake.
Their Toronto shop is in 598 Bay Street - just a few minutes walk from Eaton Centre. I am not sure if they had a dining in option pre-COVID but they only had takeaway when we went there.
Their takeaways come in this cute paper bag which perfectly fits their cheesecake boxes.
I have not tried Japanese cheesecakes before so I was excited to give this one a try. They also have another branch at the floor above Union Station foodcourt.
It was almost closing time when we got there so there were only three chocolate flavoured cheese tarts and their original Japanese cheesecake. We should have known better about these popular pastry shops selling out their products earlier in the day.
Final Verdict
A couple weeks ago, our family went to Toronto for personal reasons and we managed to sneak in a quick detour at the downtown area. We went on a Wednesday so it was not as crowded as usual that I managed to take a few quick snaps.
An urban jungle as it is, one cannot deny that Downtown Toronto has its own unique beauty. Whether it's the everyday life, the architecture, the food - there's always a pretty scene to take a photograph of. I'm still building up my confidence in street photography so my pictures are not yet remarkable but I am proud of them anyway.
Here's a few snaps from our mid-day walk at DT in Fall 2021.
Beyond the hype over K-pop and K-drama is also a hype for all things K-beauty from makeup to skincare to whatever helps make one look pretty.
I've heard about this Laneige "water" products a long time ago but I never really bought into the hype because their skincare is too expensive for my liking. It was only until a few days back, my sister gave me deluxe sample sizes of the Laneige Water Sleeping Mask and the Water Bank Cream and I finally got to see for myself if this was worth the hype (at least in my opinion).
It is also great if you could grab travel or deluxe sample sizes of products that you are trying out. It will save you more money in the long run.
Laneige Water Bank Moisture Cream
This product is targeted towards those with dryness, acne and blemishes. It promises to strengthen the defence barrier of the skin and keep it hydrated all day. It retails for CAD $50 in Sephora.
This is a good moisturizer. I can honestly say that I really like how this feels on the skin. It's really lightweight but it still retains moisture well. It also has a tacky finish which also makes it a good makeup base. I can see this working for a lot of people even those with oily skin. It works really well in terms of hydration retention in the skin.
However, I think this is too expensive for what the basic function that it has. There's nothing special about it. When I wake up in the morning, I don't notice a significant effect that will make me want to throw away my other (cheaper) favourite moisturizer and splurge on this cream.
Laneige Water Sleeping Mask
If I'm not mistaken, this is the product that really stirred up the hype with these "water" line from Laneige. I was a little excited to try this that I didn't even bother reading up about it. Given that it says it is a sleeping mask, I assumed it works like all other Korean sleeping masks. So, I ditched my regular moisturizer one night to try this on its own.
Well, that did not end well.
My naturally very dry skin was parched. For the first time in a long time my skin was extremely dehydrated. It has not been feeling extremely well since the start of the winter season but I never had it that bad. My pores were wide open that they looked like they are gasping for hydration. It was a very horrible experience. I layered it five times but my skin drank it all up and still looked so dehydrated.
I didn't know that I was supposed to use this on top of all my skincare as a final step. I tried that and with the moisture cream and I did not have a problem with it anymore. But the cream was already great on its own. I don't see the point of adding this on top of everything else. I don't feel like it's adding up to the benefits at all.
If you have another CAD $33 to spend for facial frosting, then you might want to try this out but I don't want to spend money on something that does not work and adds an extra step to my routine. So, I will not purchase the full size as well.
Final Verdict
The experience with Laneige moisturizers was pleasing but there was nothing special about both products. I really like the cream a lot but again, I'm not one to spend that much on a moisturizer. It hydrated okay but not enough to keep my skin peeling off during the winter. Both products also contain fragrance that are way up in the ingredients list and I know if I continue using these for a longer period of time, my skin will eventually be irritated.
These are pretty looking products, but these are two hard passes for me.